There seems to be a looseness with the word "hate" in today's everyday language. People throw the word around and stretch it out of context. But as always its never right to discuss a topic without a social definition at hand:
UrbanDictionary's Definition of "Hater" :
A person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for.
A being who speaks badly,and/or takes negative actions in attempt to create problems for a successful person.
The term is more often than not used improperly to title a person who simply does not like something or someone because it’s not what they are into.
UrbanDictionary's Definition of "Hater" :
A person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for.
A being who speaks badly,and/or takes negative actions in attempt to create problems for a successful person.
The term is more often than not used improperly to title a person who simply does not like something or someone because it’s not what they are into.
There you have it. Personally, I agree with all the definitions described above but I wanted to focus extra attention to the last definition. More times than not, people will express honest opinions about something and then automatically another party will constitute them as haters.
I mean I don't HAVE to like the shoes that you're wearing. LOL.
I'm not trying to take the a'hole route here but I recognize quality and talent, and quite frankly I am the beholder of what I see is beauty. Likewise, if asked my opinion and it happens to be of your distaste, its not hate...sorry!
Don't get it confused though. There are "haters" out there; some more obvious than others. However instead of casting gray clouds on another man's medal, ask them how you can get on their level!
Till the next.
Peashh.
I mean I don't HAVE to like the shoes that you're wearing. LOL.
I'm not trying to take the a'hole route here but I recognize quality and talent, and quite frankly I am the beholder of what I see is beauty. Likewise, if asked my opinion and it happens to be of your distaste, its not hate...sorry!
Don't get it confused though. There are "haters" out there; some more obvious than others. However instead of casting gray clouds on another man's medal, ask them how you can get on their level!
Till the next.
Peashh.
nice post....Hater is def used way too much
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